Be summer fling-ready

Read this from femalenetwork.com. natuwa lang ako.
So basahin nyo mga chong.


If there’s anything we look forward to each summer—aside from the pretty bright dresses and bikinis, and the beach getaways we’ll wear them to—it’s the possibility of having a summer fling!
The idea of a fling may seem exciting and even romantic, but if you get into it with too much naiveté, you might end up in tears once the season comes to a close.

So if you ever decide to find yourself a summer fling, here are a few things to keep in mind:

• Make sure it’s only a fling you’re after. Some girls say they are only out for a casual romp and yet end up falling in love with a guy who, sadly, really was only out for a casual romp. Especially for girls who are fresh out of a relationship and still emotionally vulnerable, there is that tendency to see the fling for more than what it really is—a meantime affair.


• Make yourself available, once you’re emotionally ready to jump into a summer romance. This shouldn’t be that hard, given all the beach trips and weekend parties you’re bound to attend over the summer. As this article in Dating.Suite101.com states, the best place to meet a potential summer partner is at a soiree thrown by a friend, where you're bound to be introduced to his or her single acquaintances. Just make sure you look smoking each time you go out. You never know who you’ll run into.


• Make sure the guy you’re interested in is not taken. According to EHow.com, you should check if he’s wearing a wedding ring or has a girlfriend lurking in the vicinity. The last thing you want is for his girl to chase you screaming across the street, when all you wanted was to have a little fun.


• Keep things light, once all is clear and it seems the two of you are on the same page. NYMag.com recommends keeping relationship stress to a minimum. It’s no good to get into all the trappings of a real relationship, like meeting the family and declaring love and devotion. It’s called a summer fling for a reason—it’s supposed to last only for as long as summer does.


• Know when to let go once summer draws to a close. That is, unless you’ve already fallen in love with the guy. In which case, you’ve got an entirely different problem on your hands.
  Lucky for you if he sticks around after summer. The two of you probably have something much more than a summer fling. It’s up to you both how to make it go past the expiration date.
  

tarot for the day

May 30, 2009
"Judgement may well have some nice romantic surprises in store for you today, dear aiza. But the question is: are you ready to receive them with open arms and a cheerful disposition? (Ayun lang!) Or are the doubts that the Lovers are sprinkling into the equation paralyzing you? (kase naman! haha!) There is certainly no shortage of invitations for an evening out, or for other opportunities for meeting people. But it’s entirely up to you to put your uncertainties aside and accept these invitations with enthusiasm. Just do it - make that little effort, you won’t regret it! (weh? e bat nagreregret ako ngayon? shit sana nde nalang ako kinilig sa knya! LOL mukang ako ang nabibitag hahaha!) In the work sphere, Judgement imposes a more intellectual note to the pragmatic aspects that Justice is concerned with. Go through your diary carefully and make the best of all the contacts you have previously established. Go beyond the textbook and the usual polite conversation, try to really get people enthusiastic about your ideas. You have the means to do it. The card of Judgement enables you to get over prejudices and preconceived ideas... (buti may maayos akong nabasa today! salamat msn. haha)"

taken -- teken hahaha

astig ng movie na to! i f'n swear!

I was with totee and vanot earlier. We have nothing to do so we end up strolling the mall and watching movie, entitled "taken". The movie was absolutely 5 stars for me.... really super ASTIG!

Akalain mong na shooo ako ng isang mama dun. buraot. kakasigaw ko. e ninerbyos ako e. I wasn't expecting the movie has to be like that. I'm not regretting of not watching the other movie I really want--he's not just into you. BTW, I really need to watch that movie..

So eto na pics namin nila vanot at toee. edi ako na pinaka maitim.. fuck!

Anawangin Shit

I had a tiring weekend. It all started after my shift last Sat, Gen and Martin fetched me in the office and we headed off going to Victory Liner Pasay. I have my handbag with me and they were all like, "yan lang dala mo?" Hahaha! I know, I wasn't that prepared. I was all in panic mode because of my work at the same time with the trip, also with this dude that keep on bugging me the entire time. He was so kulit that we ended up fighting and he was not able to join the trip sa kaartehan nya.

Anyway, the travel was long, I had a time to sleep for I was awake for like less than 36 hours before that trip happened. So I was obliged to sleep even I do not like. hehe. It was kind of unusual that we didn't took any pictures while travelling. After the bus, we went to wet market and bought some chicken and pork and some grocery shits. Then we took a tryk and we were ready for our banka ride.

Ok. this is our first shot :) we look so excited right? :)

And here's our bangka ride going to Anawangin Island.

Finally we arrived and we're begining to fix our tent.

We gave up on Martin's tent so there, Jets gave us their extra tent. Thanks hon. hehe

Wasn't able to enjoy at first. I was really dog tired that they left me in the tent and I took a long long rest.

So they went to the beach and started swimming. Meanwhile, I am still in the tent and snoozing. After 3 hours, Jaydee woke me up to take a shot. hehe. so I oblidged and finally I changed swim suit for swimming.


We played volleyball and frisbee.

The only thing you can do there is to chill! I swear!

We had bonfire by the shore as we took shots of bar vodka and eat some smoked hotdogs. hehe

The lake was kind of astig. Para ka lang nasa States hehe.

So the trip wasn't that fun fun fun. mejo bitin kase mejo kulang sa fun tlga. It was ok. But yea, I will not visit Zambales again, I think. hehehe

I'm still in vacation mode.
Tara!? Alis ulit tayo!
hehehe

I heart him as well

Enchong Dee, you're like an ice cream to me. Ang sarap mong titigan. LOL hahahahhaha!
pumapangalawa ka kay bebe kong mahal na si lloydie. Haay kayong dalawa tlga.. sinisira nyo ulo ko. LOL.

Seryoso. Ang gwapo nya no? bading daw.. kiber dude, lamang chan yan. hahahahha hika lang!

Article from newlysqueezed blog

I was knocked out by this: :(

"Of course there are all the dangers everyone talks about: drug addiction, HIV, unwanted pregnancy, etc. But there is another danger that most people miss: the danger of getting stuck in the wrong relationship.

-- How can I say I am in the wrong relationship? :(
When I still feel the love, the desire to see him when we are not together. :( I can honestly say how I feel the emptiness if he's not around even I am surrounded with group of friends, happy friends to be exact--I still opt to stay with him even we know his place is like hell. I can give up everything for this man. I am happy when I see him smile. But then again, I have this feeling of being fed up... Just lately.. Yea! Lately, someone is giving all his attention am longing for. Someone I can call my own 24/7. Someone who treats me nice and give all the care plus extra sweetness am I seeking for the last 2 yrs of my life.. This time, the effort doesn't came from me. This time I feel I am being loved, truly. :( I am happy that there is someone who still have the guts of askin me out. Na meron pa palang malakas ang loob na agawin ako ng tuluyan. Na makikipagtalo hanggat maghihintay daw til kaya ko ng talikuran ang buhay ko sa past. It's just so relieving knowing there is still someone. Akala ko before, once my man and I called it quits, I'll be dealing my life alone. Sana nga hindi stir tong isa. Pero kung stir sya? Siguro, matatanggap ko ng buong buo. I am still being unfair to him though. :(


and this:

"As painful as a breakup is, it is still far better to face what you really have and to deal with it, than to keep trying to make something workout of a situation that just doesn’t feel right. The longer you wait, the more painful it is likely to be."

Grabe naman to pare. naluluha ako :(

I don't know, still I can not comment on this. It's just too tiring to tell things over and over again. Need I say more? :(

Hate it! :(

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I've been waiting for the right time to publish this new entry. It's been a while since I had an update about life. A lot of things has been goin on lately, even before Bora getaway... Like weeks weeks before that. I don't know if I'm really feeling happy about my feelings or my current status shit. I don't even know if I'm in the right path. It's just that, I wasn't expecting these things will happen. But, the least I could do now is to go with the flow and make the most out of it til the day we could say .... it's over. Not that I have any idea when would that be. I just don't wanna think this has to end. Coz obviously, I'm loving it! Nevertheless, if I'm to think of the real relationship I'm into, I could probably say... I need some space, I need this time, I need to rest for a while and I need to get out from it and hopefully I could really say, FINALLY! I'm done! Whew!

That was kind of harsh. :( Of course, I really don't mean what I said on the latter part. The fact that while writing this, I am a bit annoyed with myself. Why do I have to trash out all the good and bad memories we have had knowing that I am talking about the man of my life, the one and only person I wanna be with for the rest of my life, the reason why I still keep the faith and the reason why I wanna start my day right. Sigh :( This is very very frustrating. I don't wanna sound like I'm regretting every single shit we've been through. Thing is, there are times, really, :( we just need to stop and think about our own self. SELFISH? Oh yes! I've never been like that. For the fuckin longest time... Haaaay :(

People were surprised when they knew I am currently (how do you call this?) infatuated (i guess) with a new dude. *blush* You know the feeling of sleeping every night holding your celly with a big smile in your face while thinking a lot of "what might have beens"? Sigh.. This new dude is a good catch. A big fish prolly. LOL. Literally? GIANT! LOL. he's waaaay too far from my man. He has this extra sweetness that sometimes annoys me in a way. He lessen the mushiness now though. HAH! As requested. LOL! Now, I can say, he is a part of my everyday life. He never fails to send I miss yous and I love yous. I know it's too soon to feel that, I don't know.. and I don't care if he's just making fun of me. I careless! TAPOS! I keep on tellin him to control his feelings though. Since yea, I am very vocal about my feelings for my real man, you know, I'm super duper madly in love with Scofield. HAH! Suddenly, my attention diverted to this guy which made my situation crazier than before. I know how much I do love my man, I consider him my life, but then again, posible pala to. Seryoso. Hindi ko akalain :( I am happy though, I don't wanna end this shit but til when we'll continue this love affair?

I am beggining to miss his voice, his smiles, his laughs, his pambobola, his pagaangas, his presence... :( If this is what they call falling in love... I think I'm getting there.. :(