How do you achieve or maintain balance in your life?

I've read this from Daphne's Diary, so I'm blogging about it here. I admit I have a not so balance life and I'm trying my best to have a normal one. Srsly, time is really important to me. Infact, I still need more than 24 hours just to have time for everybody. I mean, I got tons of friends, from highschool, from village, from college, and another set from other batch of scs. Still, I have my family and cousins that I am trying to deal with. And finally, I got my man who needs more than of my time and existence. I admit that work really occupies a lot of my time, but in fairness to me, whenever I know my presence is important for a certain event, I make it a point I am available. Sure I do say "pass" every now and then, I hope my friends would understand where I am coming from. :)

Care to guess what lacks me most? hehe

Here are some memories I got that make me smile:

Just last Sat/Sun, Carla had her Birthday at Parque España, Alabang. Wasn't able to make it that night. I'm srsly having a dry cough and colds. My body's aching but yea, I wanna go there and celebrate. The next day, Oge fetched me and surprised Carla! She wasn't happy am around though, LOL she's a bit tampo. So, since I am guilty, we headed to Stabs ATC and had some coffee. My treat. :) Happy Bday darling! WOW! Look at us, we are definitely all grown ups now! These four ladies I am faking with (haha) for 21 years now I guess, I certainly want to continue my life with them. The real people from day 1 to now. I love them all. That's Orange, Carla, Aiza, Marla, and Khai (shempre madami pa kameng friends, kaso kame ung solid na isang text lang.. dumadating kahit tamang tambay at yosi lang sa bulwagan o sa bahay ni khai/marla/oge)
Just a recap on my weekend, I did sleep a lot last Saturday after I went to my man. Next day, yea, I had a good laugh with my fake friends (LOL) till 530pm. Then, Carla and I attended mass. After, we went to salon for a massage. She went online and fix her fb account in the salon having my laptop. We called Mcdo for a delivery. FYI, Globe Tatoo is good, I mean, it's GREAT! The connection was amazing, I didn't expect it that way, prolly because of the location or something. I don't know. So I went home at 930pm with these colds and cough and had a good night sleep.

That's our last out of town, Oge's bday. I'm sure, I did blog about this before :)

This is my last out of town with college friends, Cagbalete Quezon. I miss them so much, specially Gaze and Gen, whom I always call whenever I need a friend. We're all busy ok? Do not just put the blame on me girls! LOL

Look at this, ang dami namin no? Even the place was not so cool, we end up happy because of kachimoyan. Wala lang, the kwentuhan and all the bonding made the trip better. :) Miss you all. Our next getaway would be on October? Tulio's hometown, Bacolod. YAY!

Just recent, I had a time to bond with them at Gen's birthday. We celebrate it at Central Bar, Mandaluyong and stopped at Center Stage for some sing along trip. I do not have any sleep yet at that time, still I opted to stay with them and chill. I miss you all really. :)

Here's my Deniña clan, we're not complete in that pic ofcourse, but that was our last getaway. We went to Pansol, Laguna. They are trying to call me now since they haven't seen me since then. Jeck, my cousin is going home from Dubai on July. I don't know if time will permit me to have fun with them. I really do hope.
My immediate family, which I don't have a latest pic, LOL I got to see all of them during Sundays. One of my happiest times when Kelly is around. "Lang penta penta Tutiiii!" Hahaha! Should I need to elaborate? hehe

Do I need to explain where I put all my idle time? HEHE Everybody knows how I love this man. Every Saturday, I got to have this real happiness when we bond. All my fears are gone and stress were subsided. Again, he's my paracetamol and I do not want to live my life without him. Not again. :) Last Sat, I brought some food from Mcdo and some sweets from Bancheto. Time is really short. We're still having a good talk about everything when I need to go home, as per the BJMPs :( f*ck them!

So yea, those are the people whom I share my life with. As much as I want to, wanna balance my time and distribute it to all of them, but of course it's impossible because we need to work. Well yea, everyone is busy right now. A lot of my friends are busy with their jobs as well.

So my current set up is like this:

and I wanna do this, but I can't because I don't have leaves LOL:


How about you? How do you achieve or maintain balance in your life?